To be able to really relax and enjoy the holidays this simple affirmation has the capability of changing a bad attitude into a festive holiday outlook, so take a deep breath and give it a try.
I respect my relatives and enjoy my holiday time with them.
Sometimes, a lot of people in a small space can cause tension. To stay at peace I take the time to appreciate my relatives. Everyone has differences and I respect the differences between my relatives and me.
Because I appreciate my relatives, we have a good time together. They see that I respect and value them, so they give me respect and value in return. We care for one another and treat one another with kindness. Differences of opinion are interesting, and can provide good and helpful discussions about life and the future.
At every holiday, I enjoy the time with my relatives more and more. They become more valuable to me all the time because I make the effort to get to know them and understand them. I realize the importance of family relationships and I experience a close, intimate connection with my family members.
When I feel stressed or crowded, I take a deep breath and let it roll off my back. My holiday celebrations are filled with relaxation and calmness. The people in my family are worthy of my respect, and they give their respect to me. I look forward to spending holiday time with them. We always have a good time when we get together as a family for the holidays.
Today, I enjoy the time I get to spend with my relatives during the holidays.
Self-Reflection Questions:
1. How can I show more respect and love to my relatives?
2. What can I do to make the holidays even better for my loved ones?
3. Are there ways I can learn to appreciate my relatives more than I already do?
By taking the time and going through the steps you can start to have the most amazing holidays every year for the rest of your life.
